Love life stops FOREVER for one in four couples after birth of child?
After giving birth, thoughts turn to baby names, breastfeeding bras and a future of sleepless nights.
Sex,
it appears, is the last thing on a couple's mind after having a baby,
with one in four new parents giving up sex forever after the arrival of
their firstborn.
In a recent survey, new parents revealed that sex became the 'elephant in the room'.
One in five men say they have difficulties even raising the idea of sex with their partner after the birth of a child.
Women are even more nervous about the subject than men, with 44 per cent raising concerns.
Pain and soreness during sex was a preoccupation for 38 per cent of women and over a third were worried that sex may not be as
enjoyable as before.
Key worries for women also included getting enough sleep, caring for their baby and
regaining body confidence before their sex life resumes, found the survey by Kegel8.
'Having sex for the first time after
having a baby can be a difficult conversation for many couples,' said Jane Wake, expert in pre and post-natal fitness.
'Dads don’t want to put pressure on their partners, and new mums may not
feel ready yet. So it’s good to communicate with each other and be
open about your needs, worries and anxieties!'
Communicating individual needs is difficult for many people.
ReplyDeleteI dunno abt stopping forever but there will be a significant drop in sex cos of added responsibility
ReplyDeleteTrue talk be dat
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