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I'm caught in the middle of a serious argument that is raging on right now...
Group 1:
This group believes that traditional wedding is not as valid and important as the church/white wedding and a couple isn't yet fully recognized as husband and wife until the white wedding ceremony is conducted. The couple should not live as husband and wife and start having a family with only the traditional wedding, this is considered to be sinful.
While Group 2:
Insists that the Traditional is as good as being married, valid and institutional like the church wedding, and the couple are recognized as ''Mr'' & 'Mrs'' and can live as a married couple and start raising a family as soon as possible irrespective of when the white wedding is done.
What's your take?
Since I'm a Christian I strongly agree with group 1.
ReplyDeleteGrp 1 has got it right pls! That's how I got "married" traditionally and the guy began to pile on pressure for sex and pregnancy saying we were now fully married but found it hard to fix a white wedding. Eventually the "marriage" broke down and i said good riddance to bad rubbish.
ReplyDeleteIf he ain't put a wedding ring on it whether court or church then it ain't legal pls even after the trad.is it not just to return wine and it's over?
ReplyDeleteI think the white is as important as the church.we can never neglect tradition likewise our Christian blessing since we have been colonised and accepted Christ both are equally important and respect given to both ways
ReplyDeleteI comment my reserve till I meet mr right ooo
ReplyDeleteGroup 1 has it! If only we know the mystery in church weddings, we'll be patient and not run off after trad. & trust me, you'll have your husband's full respect as a bride IF you wait till after the church wedding before any conception...wink!
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