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Tuesday, 9 April 2013
True or false?
''Three out of every five couples in Nigeria have seriously contemplated divorce out of marital frustration arising from miscommunication,unmet needs both sexual and financial,infidelity and incompatibility''. In this order.
Am married & seriously contemplating divorce,just hanging on cos of my kids. When u've got kids its difficult to take a walk.still I don't see my marriage lasting forever unless a miracle happens! I also know dat they are so many like me.Unmet needs & miscommunication which most nigerians will call a non-issue but for me its a big issue.
All couples in nigeria have contemplated divorce. Except those women in the village who do not know the meaning of divorce & do not really know dat they hv the right to divorce or have been raised to see divorce as a taboo.period!!
I've been married for over 9yrs & have never thot abt divorce,know my spouse isn't perfect just like am mot.we continue to make each other bette people by working 2geda knowing that we are one. U hv to go into marriage well prepared,my marriage is for better for worse except when ur life is in danger. Choose ur patner wisely,nobody wants to be lonely. Everybody wants to love & also be loved. In marriage its about unconditional love. A family dat prays 2geda stays 2geda!
You have to be married to be able to answer this question
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ReplyDelete@ Sylvia, you are right.
I believe marriage will teach you a lot of things and make you a better person.
Even if u are married, u are not in every home...a lot of frustrations surface but a lot of people would also rather stay married... D devil u know...
ReplyDeleteAm married & seriously contemplating divorce,just hanging on cos of my kids. When u've got kids its difficult to take a walk.still I don't see my marriage lasting forever unless a miracle happens! I also know dat they are so many like me.Unmet needs & miscommunication which most nigerians will call a non-issue but for me its a big issue.
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ReplyDeleteAll couples in nigeria have contemplated divorce. Except those women in the village who do not know the meaning of divorce & do not really know dat they hv the right to divorce or have been raised to see divorce as a taboo.period!!
ReplyDeleteI've been married for over 9yrs & have never thot abt divorce,know my spouse isn't perfect just like am mot.we continue to make each other bette people by working 2geda knowing that we are one. U hv to go into marriage well prepared,my marriage is for better for worse except when ur life is in danger. Choose ur patner wisely,nobody wants to be lonely. Everybody wants to love & also be loved. In marriage its about unconditional love. A family dat prays 2geda stays 2geda!
ReplyDeleteMarriage?!hmmmmmh! I no easy oh!
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