I came across this piece by Amanda Platell, on Jolie's mastectomy procedure:
Angelina Jolie’s revelation that she
had a double mastectomy to reduce her chances of breast cancer has
provoked a cruel backlash online.
Some
have accused her of being an attention seeker — a former sex goddess
who’s past her sell-by date and is now trying to use her medical
problems to boost her public profile.
Others, believe it was incredibly
courageous to share the details of her dramatic surgery, especially when
it’s not yet over. She is due to have a hysterectomy and her ovaries
removed to reduce her risk of ovarian cancer.
She is doing it for her children, she
says. She did not want them to suffer as she did losing her mother to
breast cancer when she was just 56.
But
perhaps the most striking thing Angelina said was that she did not feel
any less of a woman after having her breasts removed. ‘I feel empowered
that I made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity.’
Stirring words, but ones, I fear, which
may have a rather hollow ring for the 122,000 British women who have
mastectomies, breast surgery or hysterectomies each year. For most,
these operations herald a staggering diminution of one’s sense of self
and femininity, not to mention the crippling fatigue and terrible
depression that often follows such radical surgery.
Not Angelina, apparently. Four days after her
breasts were removed, we are told she was working with ‘bountiful
energy’ on a new film project, while six surgical drains dangled from
her chest, fastened to an elastic belt.She even accompanied Foreign Secretary William Hague to the Congo to highlight rape in war zones.
Brave
or deluded? If Angelina wanted to set a more honest example, she would
not behave like Lara Croft. She would slow down, take time to recuperate
and nurture herself back to full strength over a period of months.
To
imply, as she has done, that it is possible to bounce back in a few
days places an unfair burden on those women who struggle physically and
mentally in the aftermath of such major and life-changing surgery.
Instead
of the sympathy and understanding they deserve from bosses, colleagues,
friends and family, there is a worry they will now be expected to
‘bounce back’ in a few days, too.
I’ve
no doubt Angelina is sincere in her devotion to her children, but the
best thing she could do for them — and for all families in the same
position — is to acknowledge what a traumatic ordeal she has been
through and take time off work to rest and recover and just be a mum. I,
for one, would admire her all the more.
What's your take?
I think this is a scathing artcle. Let her deal with her health issues in her own way. Angelina Jolie is a very strong woman.Prevention is better than cure.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is different. It's her body,it's her call. Angelina's choices should be respected. period.
ReplyDeleteYes,all women are different.
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