Saturday, 2 November 2013

Sympathy Sex

Couples feet crossed under the duvet in bed Stock Photo - 20636023


He plays patient possum in the dark
As she stealthy glides in like a light breeze in the park
Tepidly hops into bed offering a defiant arched back
Hands reach out, recoil as she retreats
Her back aches, she whispers in deceit
She nudges away his ravenous hands
The dense air in his enraged tumescence decants  
Whistling like a suppressed sigh through his clenched teeth
Defeated once again, he gently tucks her in
Stroking her cheek, frustration masked by a sheepish grin
They both pretend to drift off to sleep
For whatever he did, to make her vex
He will rather get none than have sympathy sex


I'll be doubly damned if I sleep with him tonight
I guess I am better off turning on the light
Almost cursed when I found him still up in bed
For each time I go through this I see red
Willing him to sleep with all my might
I hope this wouldn’t be another long and tortuous night

Yet I can't imagine being with anyone else
For we were in love, a fairytale romance
Post four kids and 12 years its such a chore
Not that I don’t love him anymore
And then with the pressures of the long day’s work
I just don't want to give up anymore
Hmmnnn! To think that we used to do this every day
Had more than our fair share of rolls in the hay


He sleeps fitfully, lost in a bacchanalian dream
Blood running hot, ardent in his minds reel
Sheets wet and aglow with the heat of pleasure
Again and again finding orgiastic treasure
The immanent lust now a receding glow
The earlier rejection an afterglow
Satiated, his face lights up in a sheepish grin
For one day he may yet live out this dream

©Jekwu Ozoemene 2011

27 comments:

  1. I love it,its a nice peom.

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  2. Yeah,12 yrs is a pretty longtime.

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  3. Sympathy sex is inevitable when u've been married for that long.

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  4. Even when ur not married that long cos sometmes ur just not in the mood or too tired toeven moan.mschewww

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  5. Sympathy sex?tell me about it, everywoman goes tru it*sigh

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  6. Everywoman goes thru it,some more than others!#sigh

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  7. When u see as I dey hungry the man,u go just pity am. U can even solve algebra while he's busy huffing & puffing,praying he'll hurry up.lmao!

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    1. I think say na only me oo. The huffing and puffing just dey tire peson

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    2. Just write your shopping list in your head while he is at it. lol

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    3. I'm totally guilty of the market list.lmao.

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  8. Or be counting the ceilings,praying he will come fast fast.lmao.

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  9. Sympathy sex is common for women in a marriage of 5yrs or more

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  10. These women,una go kill person here o!

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  11. Yes!sex is sex. We don't mind,just give us anyhow!

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  12. Sex, food and money fit make a man quench I tell una

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  13. Sex? It's a mystery that cannot be unraveled :) A man will do almost anything to get it

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    1. It's not a small something and as nite dey reach so my heart don dey quench as my body dey weak me after going to the market and other chores I just wan rest but this ma hubby no go gree na cos I be dey eye me with one kain "sekzy" eyes since so na sheep I go dey count tonite be dat.

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    2. tiredhousewife no. 22 November 2013 at 19:41

      My sista,I'm with u there. Its not a small something. More like "hungry" eyes.

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  14. Lol@ ravenous hands, so true, nice poem

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  15. Nice poem,lovely!

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  16. It is soOoO tiring. I sleep with my newborn n hubby. Both have murdered my sleep. I hv hinted hubby abt sleeping in anor room since he gets so grumpy wen d baby wakes but he refused. Said d baby is havg so much fun feeding. He can't let baby hv all d fun. IMAGINE!the way things are going its going to be sympathy sex for thre next 1yr. Never bn so harrased n fagged out in my life. Can't even count sheep. Just remain blank so I can keep my sanity.

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    1. Men can be selfish and callous when it comes to sex

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  17. Babes,after marriage,u go see sex na u go run.lol

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  18. Am telling u, its sex sex so weakening

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  19. Its interesting and quite appaling how men will pomise you a slice of heaven when they are huffing and puffing especially during sympathy sex and it's all a faded memory when they are done.

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