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Sarah
Whitney desperately wanted to breastfeed her baby, but a battle with
cancer meant she could only do so for the first two weeks of his life.
Two poignant photographs showing a Florida mom breastfeeding her newborn son went viral earlier this year. Months later, the 31-year-old woman is opening up about her battle with cancer -- and the family's emotional journey.
Sarah Whitney was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 20 weeks pregnant. Before giving birth, she underwent a mastectomy and the first round of chemotherapy.
Her third child, Kal El, was born on April 21.
Whitney desperately wanted to breastfeed her baby, but since she was scheduled to start another round of chemo, she could only do so for the first two weeks of his life.
As Kal El nursed on his mom in the hospital, a local photographer named Katie Murray captured the tender moment. The photographs, which were shared by thousands on social media, show an emotional Whitney -- the scar on her chest visible and her head without hair -- holding the baby in her arms.
Sarah Whitney was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 20 weeks pregnant. Before giving birth, she underwent a mastectomy and the first round of chemotherapy.
Her third child, Kal El, was born on April 21.
Whitney desperately wanted to breastfeed her baby, but since she was scheduled to start another round of chemo, she could only do so for the first two weeks of his life.
As Kal El nursed on his mom in the hospital, a local photographer named Katie Murray captured the tender moment. The photographs, which were shared by thousands on social media, show an emotional Whitney -- the scar on her chest visible and her head without hair -- holding the baby in her arms.
Whitney told the Northwest Florida Daily News that she was blown away by the reaction the photographs received.
"I know why those pictures mean so much to my family. I didn’t understand why they meant so much to other people," Whitney said. "I guess it’s that universal understanding of what it’s like to do what’s best for your children, to be around for them."
Whitney, who has two other children, 6-year-old Phoenix and 7-year-old Corah, says the months since her diagnosis and Kal El’s birth have been filled with both grief and joy. Not being able to breastfeed her son has been a particular source of heartache, though.
"Even with having been told the diagnosis and losing my hair ... the hardest part for me was being told I would not be able to breastfeed for long, if at all, because of the potential harm the medications could cause the baby," Whitney said in a May interview with Eglin Air Force Base, where her husband serves as an airman. "That's the main reason why I really wanted a photographer there to capture [the moment]."
"I know why those pictures mean so much to my family. I didn’t understand why they meant so much to other people," Whitney said. "I guess it’s that universal understanding of what it’s like to do what’s best for your children, to be around for them."
Whitney, who has two other children, 6-year-old Phoenix and 7-year-old Corah, says the months since her diagnosis and Kal El’s birth have been filled with both grief and joy. Not being able to breastfeed her son has been a particular source of heartache, though.
"Even with having been told the diagnosis and losing my hair ... the hardest part for me was being told I would not be able to breastfeed for long, if at all, because of the potential harm the medications could cause the baby," Whitney said in a May interview with Eglin Air Force Base, where her husband serves as an airman. "That's the main reason why I really wanted a photographer there to capture [the moment]."
Battling her illness has been a struggle for Whitney, who also
suffers from depression. She must take cancer medication for the next 10
years, she told the Daily News, medication that interferes with her
antidepressant and has significant side effects.
But for all these challenges, Whitney says the joys of motherhood, together with the support of her family and the generosity of strangers, has given her strength and buoyed her spirits.
According to the Daily News, "dozens of mothers" have donated their breast milk for Whitney to feed Kal El.
Her husband, Michael, was allowed to work from home for most of the summer, and the family has reportedly received plenty of support from his unit at the base who helped run errands and cook meals when Whitney was pregnant.
"There's been a lot of heartache with things not working out the way we wanted, but I'm just soaking everything in and appreciating all the blessings we've had with [Kal El] being healthy," Whitney said in May, according to the base. "We don't give up in this family. We keep going -- that's what we live by."
"When she was held him and he latched on by himself, she announced it to the room, and her husband and nurse jumped over to see. Everyone was so excited and awestruck," said Murray. "It was hard to keep my composure - it was a really incredible moment, a miracle happening right in front of us."
After posting them to her Facebook page, Murray's photos of Sarah breastfeeding were shared more than 100,000 times before her site was taken down. The images made global headlines as national and international media outlets spread the word.
"People came forward and shared their experiences with us," said Sarah. "I hope the photo shows people there's hope in situations like mine."
Sarah was only able to breastfeed for two weeks, because she had to continue her treatment. She was able to continue feeding breast milk to her son through donor milk provided by a fellow military spouse.
"We took that approach to ensure he's getting as much as we originally wanted for him as possible," said Michael.
As for the baby's name, the Whitneys settled for something unconventional, yet appropriate for someone they called their miracle.
"Kal-El - what better name to give a child who's defied odds?" said Michael. "Going beyond being Superman's moniker, the name means 'voice or strength of God.' We couldn't have thought of anything more fitting."
Sarah will continue treatment for five more years. Because of the type of cancer she has, getting pregnant again will not be an option. Though her battle isn't over, her main focus right now is on her family.
"There's been a lot of heartache with things not working out the way we wanted, but I'm just soaking everything in and appreciating all the blessings we've had with him being healthy," She said. "We don't give up in this family. We keep going - that's what we live by."
But for all these challenges, Whitney says the joys of motherhood, together with the support of her family and the generosity of strangers, has given her strength and buoyed her spirits.
According to the Daily News, "dozens of mothers" have donated their breast milk for Whitney to feed Kal El.
Her husband, Michael, was allowed to work from home for most of the summer, and the family has reportedly received plenty of support from his unit at the base who helped run errands and cook meals when Whitney was pregnant.
"There's been a lot of heartache with things not working out the way we wanted, but I'm just soaking everything in and appreciating all the blessings we've had with [Kal El] being healthy," Whitney said in May, according to the base. "We don't give up in this family. We keep going -- that's what we live by."
"When she was held him and he latched on by himself, she announced it to the room, and her husband and nurse jumped over to see. Everyone was so excited and awestruck," said Murray. "It was hard to keep my composure - it was a really incredible moment, a miracle happening right in front of us."
After posting them to her Facebook page, Murray's photos of Sarah breastfeeding were shared more than 100,000 times before her site was taken down. The images made global headlines as national and international media outlets spread the word.
"People came forward and shared their experiences with us," said Sarah. "I hope the photo shows people there's hope in situations like mine."
Sarah was only able to breastfeed for two weeks, because she had to continue her treatment. She was able to continue feeding breast milk to her son through donor milk provided by a fellow military spouse.
"We took that approach to ensure he's getting as much as we originally wanted for him as possible," said Michael.
As for the baby's name, the Whitneys settled for something unconventional, yet appropriate for someone they called their miracle.
"Kal-El - what better name to give a child who's defied odds?" said Michael. "Going beyond being Superman's moniker, the name means 'voice or strength of God.' We couldn't have thought of anything more fitting."
Sarah will continue treatment for five more years. Because of the type of cancer she has, getting pregnant again will not be an option. Though her battle isn't over, her main focus right now is on her family.
"There's been a lot of heartache with things not working out the way we wanted, but I'm just soaking everything in and appreciating all the blessings we've had with him being healthy," She said. "We don't give up in this family. We keep going - that's what we live by."
Oh Lord! This is so touching...*teary eyes*
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Dunno what to say honestly. What a powerful story of courage and love
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